Thursday, May 29, 2014

So what?

In writing your memoir, pinpoint the “So what?” of each vignette you write.

Ponder this: Your memoir is about events that impacted you: you lost your job—or landed the job of your dreams; your house burned down; you made the college varsity team; your child died; you survived cancer.

After you’ve written a rough draft of a vignette, ask yourself:

  • Why was that event so important to me?
  • Why does this memory stand out when I’ve forgotten so many others?
  • What is the significance of that experience?

In other words, So what?

mulling over,
sorting out.

Peel off layers one by one until you can answer these questions:

How do you see the experience now, in retrospect?

What was going on beneath the surface?

How did it change your life?

And, if your memoir has a spiritual dimension, how was God:




holding the reins,


and arranging the details,

to carry out His best plans for your life?

Connect the dots: To what new place did God lead you? How did He shake you up, change your mind, melt your heart, revise your goals, and make a new person of you?

“Many memoir writers in workshops I’ve taught,” writes Victoria Costello, “encounter trouble with the reflective voice.… If this is a stumbling block for you, here are some phrases that can help ease you into a reflective voice:

  • There must have been…
  • Only later did I realize…
  • There was no way to know then…
  • The way I see it now…
  • It has taken me 10, 20, 30 years to understand that…”

Search your heart
for the deeper lessons
within your stories.
Only then can you pass on
those deeper lessons
to your readers.

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