Showing posts with label integrity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label integrity. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 9, 2020

Are you willing to share your story? “Convinced that this period in history would be judged one day, I knew that I must bear witness.”


We need stories about integrity, and courage, and perseverance, and about doing the right thing.

We need upright people who will speak truth to power, who will be a voice for those who have no voice, an advocate for the abused, neglected, and the downtrodden.

We need people who take seriously what we call the Golden Rule: Jesus’ words about doing unto others as we would have them do unto us—or as it says in the Living Bible: “Treat others as we would want them to treat us” (Luke 6:31, Matthew 7:12). In other words, “Think of the kindness you wish others would show you; do the same for them” (The Voice).

Imagine what it would be like for you
to be mistreated by those in power,
or for your voice to be silenced or ignored,
imagine what it’s like to be abused, overlooked,
disregarded, oppressed, and beaten down—
wouldn’t you want people to speak up?

We need stories written by people who are thinkers and questioners,
by people willing to look at issues from various angles,
people willing to step forward and take a stand,
willing to expose evil and injustice,
willing to be leaders and role models for so many of us
who are cowards—or at least foot-draggers.

Recently I read Jewish Holocaust survivor Elie Wiesel’s memoir, Night.

You’ve no doubt heard about—and perhaps read—some of his books, but he says in the preface that “ . . . all my writings after Night . . . profoundly bear its stamp, and cannot be understood if one has not read this very first of my works.” If you haven’t read his memoir, I encourage you to do so.

Elie Wiesel shows us what it looks like to put into practice this quote from his Nobel Lecture, December 11, 1986, below:


Maybe God is calling you to follow Elie Wiesel’s lead by writing your memoir.

Perhaps you can recognize yourself in what Wiesel wrote in his preface, “Convinced that this period in history would be judged one day, I knew that I must bear witness.”

Yet he also knew his “testimony would not be received. After all, it deals with an event that sprang from the darkest zone of man. . . .

“But would they at least understand?

“Could men and women who consider it normal to assist the weak,
heal the sick, to protect small children,
and to respect the wisdom of their elders
understand what happened there?

“Would they be able to comprehend how . . .
the masters tortured the weak
and massacred the children, the sick, the old?”

“And yet, having lived through this experience, one could not keep silent no matter how difficult, if not impossible, it was to speak.

“And so I persevered. . . .” (from the Preface to the New Translation [of Night])

Persevering is hard work. It can be discouraging work. Sometimes dangerous work. Often emotionally exhausting work.

Pastor Brian, my son-in-law, recently said, “Choosing to live and act with faith is hard. Will we trust God?”

That’s the hard part:
Will you trust God to help you
say what others need to hear?

Ask Him to help you speak not judgmentally,
but with grace and mercy.
Ask Him to help you speak with wisdom instead of foolishness,
with love instead of hate,
with truth instead of distortions,
with a cool head instead of a hot head,
with winsome words instead of fiery words—
words that build up instead of tear down,
that heal instead of injure.
Words that shine light in the darkness.

In what specific ways will you trust God
to help you write what others need to read?





Thursday, August 27, 2015

“We need honest, true-to-life stories to show us how”


Courage. Joy. Integrity.

We all want to possess those attributes.

We want to teach our children and grandchildren to live with courage, joy, and integrity—and your memoir can help do that.

“If we are going to live with courage
and joy
and integrity,
we need honest,
true-to-life stories
to show us how.…
What excites me are stories
with all the grit
and beauty
and squalor
of human beings
attempting to live in service to God
and loving their neighbor.”

Peter Mommsen, author of Homage to a Broken Man:
The Life of Heinrich Arnold—
A True Story of Faith, Forgiveness, Sacrifice,
and Community


Your memoir can do that! Your stories can offer others courage, joy, and integrity—and so much more.

Sure, your stories might include grit and squalor, but beauty can blossom in them, too:

Dig deep and peel back layers—because when you do, you’ll discover the ways that common people living everyday lives serve God and love their families and their neighbors, because the Good Book says:

“The most important [commandment] is this,” said Jesus.
“‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart
and with all your soul
and with all your mind
and with all your strength.’
The second is this:
‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’
There is no commandment greater than these.”
(Mark 12:29-31, Matthew 22:37-39)

Your stories can inspire readers to live like that.

Do you doubt the power of your stories? If so, think again:

“For such a long time, I felt my story wasn’t important,” wrote Mick Silva.

“I didn’t know who my story had made me. It’d been too buried. But exhuming it, the healing had been profound, pulling from the ashes of charred memories.… And the things I’ve discovered have been treasures.…”

Mick continues, “[T]hrough writing I’ve discovered that…protecting and preserving our stories is about discovering God’s story.  What he did through us, with us, in spite of us, continually pursuing that story is a matter of faithfulness and obedience, to become aware and invest in this life he’s given. To speak its life-affirming power in proper words and context, it can be the delight of our lives, an endless source of inspiration.”

Read that paragraph again, and maybe even again.
Take it in. Ponder that message.

And then, write your stories!

Write your stories as a celebratory offering to God.






Wednesday, June 6, 2012

Write your memoir “on the cutting edge of what’s going on in God’s heart”



“In Raise Up A Standard—
Michael Phillips asks, ‘Do we want to write
the sensational or the significant?’
He challenges Christian writers
‘to be on the cutting edge, not of trends,
not of what’s going on in publishing … but to be on
the cutting edge of what’s going on in God’s heart.…
If you believe in your message,
don’t give up on it.
Don’t water it down.
Don’t sensationalize it
just to get published
or to try to make it a best-seller.
Stand firm, in integrity and truthfulness,
for what God has given you
to communicate’
(Eureka, CA: Sunrise Books, pp. 29-31).”

(Marlene Bagnull in Write His Answer: 
A Bible Study for Christian Writers.) 


I like that: In writing memoir, let’s “be on the cutting edge of what’s going on in God’s heart.”


That, however, is a daunting task.


How can any human approach the cutting edge of what’s going on in God’s heart?


Henri J. M. Nouwen tells us the way to begin, and to end, and to accomplish everything in between: