“Stories are all around
us,” writes Glenda Bonin. “They reside in people, places and things, and are
waiting to be discovered.”
So true! So true!
Not just
stories.
God-and-you stories.
Take a fresh look at possessions
you could never give away or throw out.
What do you store in a special drawer or even in a safe deposit box?
What items would you
stash in a safe place if tornado sirens sounded? What would you grab if your smoke
alarm went off?
Look around and identify
something you’ve owned for years and used a lot.
If those items could
talk, what stories would they tell?
I think about that question
a lot.
This week I gave away a
set of dishes to a family that lost everything in a fire. I tucked a note
inside the box that read:
“I bought these dishes in
Africa and we used them during our seventh and eighth years there, and here in the U.S. all
these years since. While you use them, ask yourself, ‘If these dishes could
talk, what stories would they tell?’”
Someday—soon, I hope—I want,
I need, to write stories based on my
old blue American Tourister carry-on bag (a gift from Schiefelbeins—thanks,
Rick and Marilyn!). It has has traveled with me for 19 years—from this planet’s most primitive places to
this world’s most sophisticated cities—and what stories it could tell! Not just
stories, but God-and-me stories.
What stories would my
husband’s grandmother’s aluminum colander tell? My mother-in-law passed it on to
me 45 years ago. Ah, yes, it could tell stories—five generations of stories!
Look around your house
and ask yourself, “If this dining room table could talk, what stories would it
tell?”
“If my old Bible could
talk, what stories would it tell?”
“If these boots could
talk, what stories would they tell?”
What about a photo? A
photo album? A book?
A piece of furniture? A
washing machine?
A piece of art? Jewelry?
An old coffee mug?
“Think about what they
represent personally,” Glenda continues, “… aware that every item represents a
story.…”
“Don’t be timid about
interviewing yourself and others. A good interviewer asks questions and waits for
answers.… Listen deeply, allowing as much time as needed for quiet moments of
thought. Do not rush in with a new question until you are satisfied that the
question has been fully explored. It is not unusual for one question to lead to
another.… These moments are often where the best family stories can be found.…”
(Glenda Bonin at Storyteller.net)
I like Glenda’s
suggestion: Interview yourself, and “Listen
deeply, allowing as much time as needed.…”
Then write your stories,
but not just stories. Write God-and-you
stories.
Remember, while you have
been enjoying those common items—the dining room table, the colander, the old
boots, the carry-on bag—God has always been
with you, working in you, working on your behalf.
Stories are all around
you. You don’t need news-making miracles to witness God at work. He is in your everyday comings and goings.
Like Oswald Chambers
says:
“We look for visions from
heaven
and for earth-shaking events
to see God’s power.
Yet we never realize
that
all the time God is at work
in our
everyday events.…”
Write your stories!
I love this. It is so true that everything around us is part of the great story of God's dealings with us. Great post, Linda!
ReplyDeleteThanks, Lia, for stopping by and for leaving your words of encouragement. :)
DeleteLinda
What a neat idea. We don't live in a weather or fire vulnerable location, so this is not something I've given much thought to. This post prompts me to consider it more deeply, so I have two steps to story.
ReplyDeleteHi, Sharon, for most of my life I lived where we had earthquakes and volcanos and tsunamis and forest fires, but now I'm adjusting to living in tornado alley (which threaten more frequently than the others). This has given me a different sense of what material things are important--not for me so much as for my kids' and grandkids' future references, their family and spiritual roots.
DeleteThanks, Sharon, for stopping by and leaving your comment. :)
Linda
Super approach to thinking through story resources. Here is a quote I like: "Every person from your past lives as a
ReplyDeleteshadow in your mind. Good or bad, they all helped you write the story of your life, and shaped the person you are today." Doe Zantamata
Wow, Wayne, that's a super quote! And I believe it's true. I'll have to add that quote to my collection.
DeleteHope you're having a good week, Wayne, and thanks for stopping by.
Linda
Linda,
ReplyDeleteI love this unique way of thinking about the stories of our lives, especially the part about interviewing ourselves. There's so much all around us. All we need to do is stop and look around. Thanks for the great prompt!
Hi, Kathy, that's what caught my attention too-- the part about interviewing ourselves, and giving ourselves plenty of time to listen and get answers. I'd never quite thought of that before.
DeleteHow are you doing in your editing and final polishing of your memoir? I'm so excited for you! :)
Hugs and smiles,
Linda
Thanks so much for this particular call to action, Linda. I'm going to walk around in the next few days and take notes on some of the things we own and then spend some reflective time thinking through the stories they might tell. As always, so helpful!
ReplyDeleteHi, Diana, you are the most prolific storyteller I know! You're sure to find some interesting material as you look around the house at your possessions.
DeleteI didn't think of it earlier, and now I wish I had pointed out that the material possession is just that--a material possession--and the point is not that IT is important, but but that it can help us remember. It can even help us understand ourselves better and our relationship with God.
Thanks for stopping by, Diana.
Linda
Linda, I'm finally catching up on some long overdue reading. I love the concept you've set forward here. I can think of a truckload of memories in the things around me, in photographs -- oh, my! Thanks for a much needed nudge for some prompts. My writing has faltered since the death of my brother-in-law. In fact, I can't even find the want to write anymore.
ReplyDeleteBlessings, Sherrey